The sign the middle aged woman was holding said “I Need
Kindness”. Being vague what she was asking for, I watched to see the reactions
of people. Some smiled, most looked away, some went the extra effort to frown.
It is hard to understand why someone would not want to give
away a smile when they are free. Do they not understand that smiles are
contagious? That it is good for both the giver and the recipient? Something so
simple can change a person’s life. A smile gives acknowledgement to another
human being that they are worthy. It is the cheapest easiest gift to give
another.
Those who make an effort to connect know the value of
kindness. They know kindness multiplies when paid forward, expecting nothing in
return. The feel good feeling overwhelms your heart till it wants to burst with
gladness. That is what compassion is. To care about the welfare of another
human. To understand what affects one effect all in some form or fashion.
Why do some people only give when they expect to get that
pat on the back, the paper of recognition, or the tax break? The jags, beamers,
and benz that quickly pass by totally ignoring the potential in people because
they only see face value in their materialistic World. The haves VS the have
not. The sick game of keeping up with the Jones, in a never ending search for
more, bigger, and better. The empty hole that never gets filled no matter how
big, how much, or who they acquire. Trophies that line the walls and shelves,
sitting on a pedestal to be admired idolized as worth in their lives.
Those who would rather inflict harm on others they consider
less fortunate. What sick effort to hurt others has a reward? The Law of cause
and effect, what goes around comes around, the Karmic lesson in life. To hurt
is to be hurt. To love and be loved is the greatest feeling to be accomplish.
To love others unconditionally is not to judge how they have
reacted to the hurts and negative actions of others in their lives. Their self
confidence shattered by allowing others to dictate their worth. Some spiral downward
into the disease of alcoholism and addiction. It is a Spiritual malady of self-pitiful
incomprehensible demoralization that accompanies the disease. This is not to
say that all who are homeless suffer from alcoholism addiction or mental
illness. Circumstances dictate actions. We choose to make them positive or
negative.
Standing with a sign seeking kindness and a solution is much
better than stealing your needs and wants. Unfortunately taking what you want
causes Social problems. Those who feel entitled, superior and justified in
their actions to acquire wealth do not understand that wealth is not monetary.
That insatiable hole will never be filled from the outside. Those who have the
least give the most. Hoping the favor returned should they be in the same
position.
It is service that is good for the soul. Serving for the
benefit of humanity is what brings Peace to Earth. Helping those different than
you brings the change you seek. Only when we do for others can we do for ourselves.
Teaching our children the generations follow. Those who show their children
compassion for others are the Angels walking the Earth. The ones who give hugs,
kind words and acknowledgement to those considered undesirable to the masses.
This is what Jesus would do. Not dress in the finest clothing to worship in a
church that condemns the homeless wearing rags, the poor who ask for their
daily bread. Those struggling to find hope in a World of condemnation and pain.
The deliberate crucifixion of those deemed as different. The outcast kept at
bay from the gated communities who recognize others by the bar code on their
cars. Signalizing they are worthy of their kind words and deeds. The privileged
few who are so unwilling to share the wealth without prestige attached. It is
not that giving a dollar away would break them. It is the recognition attached
they seek. The shallow EGO fed soul that has a never ending bottomless pit to
fulfillment.
Why show kindness, love, and compassion to another with no
care to reward? Because it is a feeling no money can buy. The pit in your
stomach that does flips of joy in the happiness it brings to another soul,
helping you to be grateful that your problems could be worse. The hand up you
give someone could be the hand that feeds you someday. No one is invincible.
Fate can be cruel. As can Karma. Consider all who have been left homeless after
Mother Nature shed her fury. When you have nothing left to lose you will learn
what really matters in life. This is the guise of Jesus.
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